Book Recommendations & Media links
This page includes a brief selection book recommendations and links to video clips and podcasts in no particular order (with no affiliations) that may be helpful, however please note they are not a substitute for therapy or medical advice.
Books
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma - by Bessel A. van der Kolk, 2014
When the Body Says No: The Cost of Hidden Stress - by Gabor Maté, 2003
The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog - by Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz, 2006
The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness, and Healing in a Toxic Culture - by Daniel Maté and Gabor Maté, 2022
It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle - by Mark Wolynn, 2016
No Bad Parts: Healing Trauma and Restoring Wholeness with the Internal Family Systems Model - by Richard C. Schwartz, 2021
Introduction to Internal Family Systems, 2nd Edition - by Richard C. Schwartz, 2023
Media
“What is trauma? The author of “The Body Keeps the Score” explains” 7min Video by Bessel van der Kolk, 2021 (Youtube)
“How the body keeps the score on trauma” 8min Video Bessel van der Kolk, 2024 (Youtube)
“6 ways to heal trauma without medication” 8min Video Bessel van der Kolk, 2022 (Youtube)
“Dr. Richard Schwartz explains Internal Family Systems” 7min presentation by IFS Institute, 2019 (Youtube)
“What is Experiential Therapy?” 20min presentation by Dr Tori Olds, from an Experiential Therapy Series of 7 Videos, 2024 (Youtube)
“What is IFS Therapy? Intro to Internal Family System” 18min presentation by Dr Tori Olds, 2022 (Youtube)
“Experiential Therapy: Mindfulness in Action” 9min presentation by Dr Tori Olds, 2020 (Youtube)
What does starting EMDR look like? 23min clip by The Lukin Center (Youtube)
Bessel van der Kolk discussing Neurofeedback, 90min at the Trauma Research Foundation, 2021 (Youtube)
Pain resources
Books
Healing Back Pain: The Mind-Body Connection - by John E. Sarno, 1991
The Divided Mind: The Epidemic of Mindbody Disorders - by John E. Sarno, 2006
Unlearn Your Pain, 4th Edition: A 28-Day Process to Reprogram Your Brain - by Howard Schubiner and Michael Betzold, 2010
The Way Out: The Revolutionary, Scientifically Proven Approach to Heal Chronic Pain - by Alan Gordon with Alon Ziv, 2021
Mind Your Body: A Revolutionary Program to Release Chronic Pain and Anxiety - by Nicole J. Sachs, 2025
Explain Pain Second Edition - by David S. Butler & G. Lorimer Moseley, 2013
Media
Dr Howard Schubiner’s 22-minute lecture on “The Reign of Pain”, 2017 (Youtube)
5-min Ted-Ed Animation on “The mysterious science of pain”, 2019 (Youtube)
“The BEST WAYS To Heal Chronic Pain & Trauma WITHOUT Medication” 2-hour Podcast Youtube Video Dr Howard Schubiner on Dr Rangan Chatterjee’s Feel better live more Podcast, 2024 (Youtube)
Ted Talk on “Why Things Hurt” presented by Prof. Lorimer Moseley, 2014 (Youtube)
Ted Talk on “A new way to think about pain” by a patient Lauren Cannell, 2023 (Youtube)
“Explaining chronic pain: The role that stress plays and the creation of learned nerve pathways” short 8-min lecture by Dr Howard Schubiner, 2013 (Youtube)
“Breakthrough with Healing Chronic Pain” presented by Dr Howard Schubiner at Google Talks, 2018 (Youtube)
“This Might Hurt - Trailer for Documentary about Chronic Pain”, 2mins, 2022 (Youtube)
“Talk with Susan McConnell on Embodying IFS” 52mins IFS talks Podcast on the connection of IFS, Pain and Physical Symptoms in the body, 2019 (also on Spotify)
Can a Rubber Arm Feel Pain? - Get Curious about Pain!
“The Rubber Hand Illusion - Horizon: Is Seeing Believing? - BBC” 3min video (Youtube)
“Rubber Arm Experiment” 4min Video from Netflix series (Youtube)
“Science of self - the rubber hand illusion” 2min Video from ABC Science (Youtube)
“How Well Do You Know Your Own Hand?” 4min Video from SciShow Psych (Youtube)
Relationships & Sexuality resources
Books
You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For: A New Approach to Intimate Relationships with IFS - by Richard C. Schwartz, 2008
The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity - by Esther Perel, 2017
Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence - by Esther Perel, 2006
Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus - by John Gray, 1992
The 5 Love Languages: The Secret to Love That Lasts - by Gary Chapman, 1992
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life, Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships - By Marshall B. Rosenberg, 2015
The Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin and Robyn Dalzen, 2021
The Erotic Mind: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment - by Jack Morin 1995
Sexual Intelligence: What We Really Want from Sex and How to Get It - by Marty Klein, 2012
Media
“Toni Herbine-Blank on IFIO and the new IFS Couple Therapy Skills Manual” 47min Podcast on IFS Talks 2021, (also on Spotify)
“Intimacy and Connection from the Inside Out” 70min Podcast with Toni Herbine-Blank & Neil Sattin Relationship Alive! Podcast, 2016 (Youtube)
“Dr. Marty Klein: Sexual Intelligence - 10 Things Humanists Need to Know About Sex” 70min presentation, 2013 (Youtube)
“Sexuality through IFS Lens with Patricia Rich” 50mins on IFS Talks Podcast, also on Spotify
“Working with sex and sexuality using IFS with Victoria Kirby” 50mins on IFS Talks Podcast, also on Spotify
“Talking about Sex with IFS Founder Dr. Richard Schwartz” 46min on the Self-Led in Bed IFS and Sexuality Podcast by Patricia Rich, 2025 (also on Spotify)
“What is the Wheel of Consent?” 6min by Dr Betty Martin (Youtube)
“How to play the 3-Minute Game” 14min by Dr Betty Martin (Youtube)
Yoga related resources
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